- What Social Media is Really All About with Giuseppe de Caria
- All for One and One for All – It's a Community Spirit!
- We Learned Something from Jimmy Kimmel?
- Top 5 Reasons to Organize Your Social Media Relationships
- Fond Memories, or Just Plain Ole' Fed Up?
- Preparation… Then Bam! It All Breaks Loose… Are You Ready?
- Renewing and Reconnecting Past Relationships
- Learning, Growing, Responsibilities and Increasing Your Circle of Influence
- Connections and Relationships… And Other Things We Are Thankful For
- Managing Social Media, Information and Knowledge Survey
- Social Media Revolution Video
What Social Media is Really All About with Giuseppe de Caria
We were extremely honored to be able to share some time with Giuseppe de Caria for a COOL interview during Mike Klingler's Marketing Funnel Mastery event held in Las Vegas.
In this video Giuseppe shares how social media is really about communicating with people, interacting with them and sharing your knowledge. Don't take our word for it; listen to the interview with Giuseppe!!!
Giuseppe doesn't just talk about communicating and interacting with others online… he lives it.
If you got any value from this interview, please comment and share.
To find out more about Giuseppe, visit him at: GiuseppedeCaria.com
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All for One and One for All – It's a Community Spirit!
The 3 musketeers… a community? Hey, the dictionary says a community can be of any size, and we believe that the musketeers commitment to supporting each other was definitely rooted in a community mindset. In the world of Reference.com… "Communities usually assist and support one another…". So there you have it, The 3 Musketeers were a community.
Does community also relate to the online world? We truly believe it does.
An online community is a perfect venue for people to share information relating to the common interests of the group, and assisting and supporting each other in gaining the knowledge needed to achieve their goals. And as in all other areas of life, online communities will have their experts, the people who have been there and done that, who can pass on proven knowledge of how the other community members can achieve the same success.
The members of the community have a voice… an equal opportunity to share their personal thoughts and insight with the other community members. It's a place where they feel they will be heard and not be concerned about what others might think.
And yet, the members of the community are not "sheep" or "clones" of each other. They have unique dreams and visions, and different roads to travel to achieve their goals. For instance, if online business success is a common interest of the community, there will be many different businesses to be found within its members.
A community is like a foundation or home base for its members… a place to start or to come home to when they need assistance or support, and a place to experience and learn what they need to know to create success for themselves. Yet community members can belong to other groups that support and assist them in different ways… often directed there by other community members.
Whether it be for training, syndication, or just connecting with each other, the members of an online community have so many social media sites and tools to use. It's a vast world, but through the online world of social media it can get a lot smaller and closer… it can become a tight-knit community.
An online community for learning, sharing and communicating… in our minds a very COOL place to belong!
So… we'd love to know what your thoughts are on an online community, the tools and activities associated with them, and where you feel you would need some assistance from a community in regards to those tools and activities. For us to connect with you on this, we'd so very much appreciate it if you could take a few short minutes to leave us a comment on your thoughts of how a community could best help you.
We Learned Something from Jimmy Kimmel?

Image Courtesy Pedro Mourelle
Here's Johnny! Oops, we mean Jimmy. Jimmy Kimmel… the late-night talk show host (and comedian) who had previously declared Twitter war with us on his TV show, Jimmy Kimmel Live, and on Twitter.
It was an interesting, fun and very cool experience… and one that we learned a lot from as well.
What exactly did we learn?
This is what we learned:
1. Branding is important.
Having a brand that people can associate you with is very important. Unless you are extremely famous and everybody knows your name, having a brand that's different, something people can relate to or remember easily, and even something fun, will go a long way in getting you noticed by others.
Once you develop a brand you need to make sure that everything you do is through that brand. The more you put your brand out there, the more people will remember it and the more people will get to see it. It's also a good thing to tie it into your tweets and postings on Facebook… just a word here and there that relates to your brand.
Another thing we found is that it really helps to have a brand that fits you. If it is a brand that you can't relate to, or just doesn't speak to who you are, then you are less likely to use it to the fullest… and a lot of people will notice the disconnect and not buy into it. Find something you can be comfortable with. After all, you will be promoting yourself through this brand.
2. It doesn't happen overnight.
We've been working on our Twitter relationships for two years… following people, tweeting, getting involved in Twitter groups, re-tweeting, and building a lot of relationships. Usually, unless there's extenuating circumstances like having your own TV show, getting up to 57,000 followers takes time.
So the secret… get on Twitter and build relationships. Get involved. That doesn't mean you have to be on Twitter 24/7 either. A little bit here and there connecting with people goes a long way. As well, you can take advantage of auto-tweet programs, such as HootSuite. But use the auto-tweet programs as a compliment to personally connecting… don't use them for everything you do on Twitter.
3. Communicate with your followers.
One thing that was mentioned by Jimmy's followers as well as ours was that Jimmy wasn't on Twitter talking to them. Again, social media, no matter which site you're on, is all about relationships. We even got a few of Jimmy's followers to switch sides because we were actually talking to them.
4. Don't take it personally.
Because our name and picture were seen by a lot of people, we got a lot of not-so-complimentary comments; we just didn't take any of them to heart. You are not going to be liked or put in a good light by everyone. The interesting thing is that nearly all of the people who don't have anything nice to say about you, don't even know you at all. So what do they base their comments on? They make it up.
To get noticed you need to stick your head above the sand… and some people will take that opportunity to use it as "target practice". Criticism and detrimental comments are part of life, but one that we don't need to buy into.
Social media can be a lot of fun, while meeting a lot of cool people at the same time. You never know who you'll meet and what crazy and interesting experiences you'll have along the way.
Leave us a comment on what you've learned about social media and getting noticed online… and some challenges you've had in that regard as well. We'd love to hear about it!
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Top 5 Reasons to Organize Your Social Media Relationships
You, like most everyone else, have a ton of contacts you’ve met through Twitter, Facebook, your blog, and numerous other Social Media networking sites. And that’s where any information you have regarding those relationships stays… on Twitter, Facebook, etc.
You need to organize and manage those relationships… for your benefit and theirs. So now you're wondering… how beneficial can that really be?
Well here it is (drum roll, please)… the Top 5 Reasons why you need to organize and manage your Social Media relationships:
5) Facebook, Twitter, etc…
With all the contacts you have today, some seriously potential relationships can slip away without you even being aware of it. You need to keep track of your major relationships… at least have the names of your contacts, their Twitter page, Facebook page, and website or blog.
4) Joint Ventures
You have a great idea for an amazing online or offline business venture. What you need is someone else with specific skills to make the idea work and rocket to success. If you’ve organized your Social Media relationships, and have basic information on those contacts, your joint venture partner may be as close as your keyboard.
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Fond Memories, or Just Plain Ole' Fed Up?
Our son is graduating from high school this year (this will be our second one… wow, time flies). He is looking forward to having a very memorable experience with all of his best friends. There's the new suit, limousine rental, picture order, after-party planning, etc., etc.
Basically, he wants it to be an experience he'll have fond memories of for quite some time. All the work planning this event will be worth the effort considering how long the memories of his graduation will be with him.
Are you creating the same experience with your social media efforts? Or… are you just finding it a lot of time-consuming, hard work that has you just plain ole' fed up with the whole experience?
What is so Cool about social media is that it provides us with a venue to create new and long-lasting connections and relationships. Ones that can be with us for a long time, and ones that will be memorable and beneficial to both parties. By looking at social media that way… by creating experiences for ourselves and for the people we create relationships with, we can have fond memories of these experiences for a long time to come.
After all, that's what all of this is about. It's about relationships and helping each other out. We give and share and meet people along the way.
We can't look at social media as purely a way to sell to other people. It's not a virtual billboard or classified ads section, it is a place to connect with other people and develop relationships with them. Only once the relationships have been developed are people open to you sending them info on what it is you have to offer. By then they already know, like and trust you enough to realize that you are promoting to them things that will help them and are designed to make their lives better. And… wouldn't you rather promote your business from a place of connection and mutually beneficial relationships?
Create those fond memories with your social media efforts… meet people, connect with them, build relationships and have fun… that's what it's all about!
Preparation… Then Bam! It All Breaks Loose… Are You Ready?
Wow… we're right in the middle of dance competition season. Our daughter is involved in four different types of dance, so it seems we are constantly running back and forth to some venue to watch her compete.
It seems like eons have passed since September when she first began this season of dance. That means for seven months she has been learning and training for these three short weeks of competition.
The amazing thing is how these dances develop over those few months. First they need to learn and master the new steps and movements and then they learn and practice the actual dance. Plus… the costumes and make-up need to be chosen and purchased to put the finishing touches together.
All that preparation… the calm before the storm… laying the foundation for what's to come…
So hang on… 'cause that is exactly what happens in your business. You start by laying the foundations… creating your blog, setting up your Facebook profile and fan page, joining Twitter and all the other relevant social media sites that are going to help you on your way to success.
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Renewing and Reconnecting Past Relationships
So our daughter turned 16, got her driver's license and now wants a car of her own to drive around. We decided that we could give her one of our cars and bring out "our baby".
We uncovered and dusted off our Nissan 300ZX that we hadn't driven in quite some time; it was like reconnecting with an old friend. Then we thought to ourselves… why hadn't we done this earlier?
Just like in life…
There are relationships that we have, or had in the past, that we have not recently spent time or energy on; relationships that were once strong that have become disconnected. The good intentions are there… the "I should call them" thoughts. But then… nothing.
Learning, Growing, Responsibilities and Increasing Your Circle of Influence
It's amazing to see the transformation and how it applies to our involvement in Social Media.
Our daughter just turned 16 and went to get her driver's license. She was very nervous and somewhat stressed out at the thought of "a test". So she set her sights on the prize at the other end (her license), took the test, and passed!
If we take a look back at what it was like for her before she even had her learner's license, it was something like this… she was dependent on her parents, brothers, friends' parents, the transit system or her feet to get her where she wanted to go. The amount of times she could get out and socialize was limited. Her circle of influence (her friends and social life) was in turn, limited.
Just like in Social Media… we start out on Twitter, Facebook, etc. with a few followers and friends, but we don't really have the knowledge, tools and confidence to really spread our social networking reach. At least, not yet.
Then came the learner's license… more responsibility and two years of learning and building confidence. Yes, she still had to have someone in the car with her, but her influence with us, her parents, was higher as we wanted her to have as much exposure to driving as possible so that she would have the skills and confidence to get her driver's license at the end of it all. As well, the learner's license made it possible for her to take driver training… an opportunity to get the additional knowledge and confidence to reach her goal.
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Connections and Relationships… And Other Things We Are Thankful For
As we sat here in the comfort of our home office, we thought about how thankful we are to have a house to live in. Others are not so fortunate… they do not have a place to call home.
So then we asked ourselves… what else do we have to be thankful for? A LOT!
We've outlined a few of the things we're thankful for in this mindmap:

So who said Thanksgiving comes around only once a year? We can be thankful (grateful) for what we have all year round. Think about and write down what you are thankful for, it's a very uplifting experience.
For us, our connections and relationships are especially important. On a daily basis we connect with so many people… in person as well as through all the wonderful social sites and technologies. Without even really being conscious about it, we are continually connecting with others.
These people teach us, support us, enable our success, bring us more joy… and basically complete us as human beings.
That is why on our blog we invite you to "Be Social With Us"! It is also the reason we organize and manage our relationships inside our knowledge maps. It is important for us to develop new relationships and to keep our established relationships alive.
It's all about relationships… how do you stay connected?
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Managing Social Media, Information and Knowledge Survey
We would appreciate your input on managing social media relationships, information and knowledge.
On a daily basis you connect with new friends and followers, keep in touch with existing contacts, and are exposed to an overwhelming amount of information and knowledge. So, how do you manage all that? Does most of it end up in a black hole, never to be seen again? If you're like most people, that's exactly what happens. Then when you need it most, you can't find it.
People have told us things like:
"I don' know how to organize it all."
"How do I get my head around managing this on a daily basis, so that I don't end up overwhelmed and therefore give up!"
"My challenge – overload, and getting everything organized. Paper and email avalanche."
As well, people had specific questions about whether it is possible to manage and organize social media relationships, information and knowledge, and how to do it.
To better define what you'd really like to know, would you please take five minutes to complete the following survey? (It's just 7 questions, and they're really easy to answer.)
The survey is here ==> http://2yourpage.net/go/survey01/cc1
Thank you in advance for your input, we really appreciate it.
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Social Media Revolution Video
Well this video is not officially part of the "Did You Know" series, but they do share some fact and figures, and of course the music.
So is Social Media just a fad?
Are Twitter, Facebook and all the other social networks site going to stay?
Watch the video below to find out why and tell us your thoughts in the comments
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